Who is the most important person you can lead? Would you say it’s your followers, peers, or boss? After over a decade of being a student of leadership and being in a variety of leadership roles, I’ve found it’s none of those people. The most important person and the hardest person you will ever lead is yourself. In fact, effectively leading others starts with self-leadership.
Self-leadership is also one of the greatest challenges of leadership. This saying states it well, “If I could kick the person most responsible for my problems. I would not be able to sit down for a week.” Leaders can unintentionally be the problem and not the solution. We are humans with emotions and feelings. At times we make mistakes and fail. This is why when we see or sense we are the problem, emotional, or making an unusual number of mistakes; we need to take time to look in the mirror to reflect on how well we are leading the person looking back at us. Self-leadership is about pulling back enough so we can take charge of our actions, behaviors, and attitude. Lasting influence comes when we are able to do this. To assist you in leading yourself successfully remember these suggestions:
- Place more effort in leading yourself than anyone else
- Live a balanced life between your personal and professional life
- Focus on your core priorities and areas of responsibilities
- Maximize your time by focusing on your top and most important priories
- Lead through your example. Making sure your words match your actions
- Invest in personal growth so you are moving toward your maximum potential
- Chose to look at the good side of your life and people while not finding the bad or what your people are doing wrong
- Have and maintain a good and positive attitude about your life and surroundings
Thomas J. Watson, the former chairman of IBM, said, “Nothing so conclusively proves a man’s ability to lead others as what he does from day to day to lead himself.” The greatest challenge of leadership will always be to lead you successfully.
Questions: How do you overcome the greatest challenge of leadership? What other suggestions would you add to help you lead yourself successfully?
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